What is a Eulogy? A Timely Message from NIC Founder ~ Rev. Paula T. Webb
In different cultures, it can mean different things.
For instance, in multi-cultural New Orleans, it can mean playing one funeral dirge and then dancing in the streets in celebration of the person's life. In the Irish tradition, it can mean toasting the person who has passed on with their favorite drink and telling tall tales. For some traditional Italians, the eulogy can begin with the ritual of washing the body with rose water and blessing the body as it begins a new journey. And for some cultures, the body is whisked away immediately upon death, never to be seen again ~ and then days of prayer follow.
Whatever culture one subscribes to ~ a Eulogy is usually present in some form.
However, in American society, a Eulogy is primarily viewed as a speech during a funeral service, and of course the notice listed in the local or national newspaper. Eulogies can be difficult to express, especially if the person who has passed led a difficult life in terms of relationships ~ or a stellar life whose loved ones are too grief-stricken. Those left behind may find it virtually impossible to find the right words to really express what they feel. And, this is especially understandable if there were things left unsaid or actions not completed.
As Founder of the NIC, I have found, not only through personal experience, but also in my travels to other countries, and through services for others, that in the long run, having a eulogy that is healing ~ helps in a multitude of ways. Not only from the standpoint of the immediate circumstances, but also later on down the road, when family and friends start experiencing the first holiday, or 'special' day when the deceased is not there. Going back to an inspiring and healing eulogy can ease the pain of loss and help with the process of grief and the letting go ~ no matter whether the relationship was perfect, or less-than.
Therefore, upon request by others, I am now making myself available to assist you in creating the best eulogy you wish for your friend or family member that has passed on. I know writing my mother's eulogy and notice were so completely rewarding for me ~ knowing that her legend and life were important. Whether they were good, bad or indifferent, we ARE here to give testimony to those who pass before us.
Please feel free to call me at 602-489-2011 for more information or send me ane-mail.